by McKenzie Stalkenburg
The number 13 might scare some people because of the unlucky reputation that it has. Hotels skip over it and Friday the 13th makes people cringe.
When it comes time to celebrate your 13th anniversary, there is no need to fear! It is just another year to celebrate your love.
It might seem like you’ve run out of creative ideas to make every anniversary special. While you might have pulled off some amazing surprises for the past 12, it is intimidating to try to outdo yourself for the 13th time.
With the right amount of planning and the perfect gift, a successful 13th year together is possible. Show your spouse how much you love them by following these simple steps to make your 13th anniversary lucky.
Do Something Surprising
Even though you should show your spouse you love them every day, it is a nice gesture to do something extra special to celebrate the 13 years you’ve spent together.
Think of what would really make them smile. A bouquet of flowers, their favorite breakfast, or a sparkling clean house are all great places to start!
Wake up your spouse with a special something that would set the day off on the right foot. It is the little things that can mean the most sometimes!
If you have kids, try to get them in on the surprise. They could decorate the house with their own special touch or do their best to make a pot of coffee for the two of you.
Starting the day with an unexpected gesture will put your spouse in a great mood and set the tone for the rest of a beautiful day.
Plan a Fun Day
A successful 13th anniversary will require a bit of planning ahead of time. Waiting until the last second is never the way to go!
Come up with a few ideas and give your spouse the option of what they want to do. Fun day trips out are the way to go.
If your spouse likes to gamble, think about a trip to their favorite casino. Zoos, museums, aquariums, and galleries are also fun options!
If you really want to spoil them, and you don't have any obligations, consider taking a trip, and enjoying a sailing sunset tour together - what could be more romantic?
Make a list of your top five ideas and then decide together to make sure you both have the best day possible.
And don’t forget about lunch while you are out! Make sure to think of fun places that are near romantic cafes or coffee shops. A quick bite to eat on a busy day out will keep you both in a good mood.
If you can’t find a babysitter for the whole day, it’s a good idea to have some family-friendly options. Amusement parks can be a ton of fun for everyone!
Pick the Perfect Restaurant
Once all the fun has been had during the day, the evening should be spent together at a romantic restaurant for dinner.
Make reservations ahead of time to make sure you get a table at your spouse’s favorite spot! It would be unlucky to get to the restaurant to find there is a long wait.
Spoil each other with drinks, appetizers, and dessert to have an amazing time. A quiet night out together is a great way to kick the romance into high gear.
To spice up dinner a bit, consider ordering each other’s entrees to test how well you really know each other. It can be fun to try new food and laugh about the surprises.
Keep the love alive on your 13th anniversary with conversations about the past. It can be fun to reminisce about when you first met or the wedding day you planned for months.
Wrap a Thoughtful Gift
Picking the perfect gift is another important piece of a successful anniversary. While you feel like your spouse is always telling you about items they need, when it comes time to buy the gift, it seems impossible!
It has to be romantic and thoughtful, and it has to make your spouse happy. Even if you pulled this off every year, it is hard to live up to the expectations you’ve set!
According to Gift Wits, it is important to surprise your spouse on each and every anniversary with the gift that you give. It doesn’t have to be the most expensive. It just has to be thoughtful and well-planned.
Jewelry is always a good choice for her while a watch is great for him. These can break the bank, though!
Custom artwork with your wedding date is unique and very romantic. You can also go for books by their favorite author or matching wine glasses that you can use together.
It might take some time to find the perfect gift, but when you find it you will know! Give it over dessert at the romantic restaurant to surprise your spouse the most.
Spend Time Alone Together
To have the most romantic anniversary possible, it is important to try to spend it alone with each other.
For couples with children, it can definitely be difficult to find some time to spend alone together. Romantic movie nights are a thing of the past once your family starts to expand!
For your anniversary, it is a good idea to find a babysitter, even if it is only for the dinner part of the night. See if they can sleep over grandma and grandpa’s house for a whole night alone!
Even if you don’t have children, don’t plan to meet up with friends or family on your anniversary. Keep it just the two of you on your 13th anniversary to make it extra special.
After dinner and dessert, plan to put on a new movie that you would both love. Whether it is a romance, comedy, or thriller, make sure to snuggle up close and enjoy it together.
You can even make the night interesting by playing a game together. There are many games for couples to play alone that can be fun!
No matter how you choose to spend your 13th anniversary, you just have to make sure it is special for both of you. Spend the day together to remember why you tied the knot 13 years ago.